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Tuning into Your Body’s Wisdom: The Benefits of Brainspotting for Emotional Healing

August 05, 20255 min read

When it comes to healing from trauma, we often think of talk therapy as the go-to solution. But for those of us who have experienced betrayal, abuse, or other emotional wounds, the healing doesn’t just need to happen in our minds—it needs to happen in our bodies, too. After all, trauma isn’t just something that resides in our thoughts. It’s stored in our bodies—in the tension we hold in our muscles, the tightness in our chest, and the racing of our hearts.

Our bodies carry the wisdom of what we’ve been through, but sometimes it’s hard to access that wisdom. This is where Brainspotting comes in—an innovative therapeutic modality that helps you reconnect with your body and use its wisdom to facilitate emotional healing.

The Connection Between the Mind and Body in Healing

When we experience emotional pain, particularly from betrayal trauma or abuse, our bodies respond in a variety of ways. You might feel tightness in your chest, knots in your stomach, or a feeling of being disconnected from your own skin. These are all physical manifestations of emotional trauma that get stored in the body. Over time, these physical symptoms can create a chronic sense of anxiety, discomfort, or numbness.

It’s not just about “getting over it” in your head; it’s about releasing the trauma that’s been stored deep inside your body. And this is where Brainspotting comes in.

What is Brainspotting?

Brainspotting is a somatic therapy that focuses on releasing trauma from the body by tuning into the brain-body connection. It’s a form of therapy developed by Dr. David Grand that focuses on where you look—your eye position—to access deep, stored emotions in the brain. The theory is simple: where you look affects how you feel. By focusing on a particular spot in your visual field (a “brainspot”), Brainspotting helps activate the part of your brain where trauma is stored and allows it to be processed and released.

This technique allows you to access areas of your brain that aren’t typically reached through traditional talk therapy. For women healing from betrayal trauma, this is especially important, as trauma is often stored in the body in ways that the conscious mind can’t always access.

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How Brainspotting Helps You Tune into Your Body’s Wisdom

Your body has a lot to teach you, but it’s easy to become disconnected when trauma has created a wall between your emotions and your physical self. Here are a few ways Brainspotting helps you tune into your body’s wisdom and use it for emotional healing:

  1. Releases Stored Trauma
    The most important benefit of Brainspotting is its ability to help you release trauma that’s stored in the body. By focusing on specific eye positions, Brainspotting helps process unconscious memories and emotions. This not only clears emotional pain but also allows your body to release the tension that’s been trapped there.

  2. Helps You Tune into Emotional Signals
    Sometimes, our bodies give us signs of emotional distress before our minds catch up. Brainspotting helps you tune into those signals, allowing you to process them in real-time. By becoming more attuned to the way your body responds to emotions, you can develop a deeper understanding of what’s going on beneath the surface.

  3. Calms the Nervous System
    Trauma often dysregulates the nervous system, causing you to feel anxious, hypervigilant, or numb. Brainspotting helps to re-regulate your nervous system, bringing it back into a state of balance. As your nervous system calms, you’ll notice a sense of peace and stability returning to your body.

  4. Reconnects You with Your Authentic Self
    After betrayal or abuse, it’s easy to feel disconnected from who you truly are. Brainspotting helps you reconnect with your authentic self by allowing your body and mind to process pain without judgment. As you release stored trauma, you’ll begin to feel more at home in your own body and more connected to your true emotions and desires.

  5. Promotes Healing from the Inside Out
    Healing isn’t just about understanding your trauma; it’s about feeling safe in your body again. Brainspotting helps you create a safe space within yourself, where emotional healing can occur naturally and without force. This allows you to heal at a deeper level, not just by talking through the pain, but by feeling through it.

The Road to Reconnection and Empowerment

One of the most empowering aspects of Brainspotting is that it doesn’t just help you “move on” from trauma—it helps you reclaim your body and your life. You’re not just surviving; you’re learning to thrive again. You’re learning to trust your body’s wisdom, to listen to the emotional signals it’s sending you, and to heal in a way that’s as much about the body as it is the mind.

Your body knows how to heal. It just needs the right tools and support to process the trauma that has been stored within it. With Brainspotting, you can tap into your body’s innate wisdom and reclaim the safety, confidence, and empowerment that betrayal or abuse took from you.

Next Steps: Embrace Your Healing Journey

If you’re ready to reconnect with your body and begin processing the trauma that’s been stored in your nervous system, I encourage you to explore Brainspotting as part of your healing journey. Whether you’re new to this method or have tried other forms of therapy, Brainspotting offers a unique and powerful approach to emotional healing.

If you’re ready to begin your healing process, reach out to schedule a Brainspotting consultation or consider joining an upcoming Brainspotting Intensive. Let’s work together to help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom and move forward on your path to healing.

You don’t have to do this alone. Healing is possible, and it’s waiting for you to take the first step.

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**To find out more about brainspotting and how it can support you wherever you are at in your journey visit amiewoolsey.com/brainspotting

To book a session with Amie call or text 702.277.9145

I am a certified betrayal trauma life coach and Brainspotting Practitioner. I have supported hundreds of people reclaim their lives after abuse, betrayal & or divorce, using my extensive experience and holistic approach to healing the heart, mind, and body. 
Having personally experienced the heartache and upheaval of betrayal and divorce, I empathize deeply with the pain and turmoil these life circumstances can create. Through my transformative coaching style, I empower women to navigate their challenging journeys with strength, confidence, tools, and unwavering support. There are multiple resources available I have created ,alongside opportunities for both group and private coaching.
I am the creator and host of The Empowered Divorce Podcast, co-host of The Choose to BE Podcast, is affiliated with Safe Space, and the creator of her signature program, Should I Stay Or GO, Believing In You, Divorce 101 and Intimacy Within.

Amie Woolsey

I am a certified betrayal trauma life coach and Brainspotting Practitioner. I have supported hundreds of people reclaim their lives after abuse, betrayal & or divorce, using my extensive experience and holistic approach to healing the heart, mind, and body. Having personally experienced the heartache and upheaval of betrayal and divorce, I empathize deeply with the pain and turmoil these life circumstances can create. Through my transformative coaching style, I empower women to navigate their challenging journeys with strength, confidence, tools, and unwavering support. There are multiple resources available I have created ,alongside opportunities for both group and private coaching. I am the creator and host of The Empowered Divorce Podcast, co-host of The Choose to BE Podcast, is affiliated with Safe Space, and the creator of her signature program, Should I Stay Or GO, Believing In You, Divorce 101 and Intimacy Within.

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